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More NLP blogging on phobias…

Thursday, March 4th, 2010

NLP Blog / Personal Development Blog

Have you ever listened to an old fashioned record player when a record has a scratch on it? When the same bit of music gets played again and again and again? It can even happen with cds – I remember being at a restaurant once where the same 30 seconds of music was played endlessly – a great way to get clients to hurry up and get out!

We could think of phobias in a similar way – you get into a certain situation and the same bit of music gets played again and again.

In the NLP technique for dealing with phobias, we look at how to deal with the ‘glitch’. Although there are many methods for dealing with phobias, in NLP we have techniques that seem to be some of the most powerful available, all of which students learn on our NLP trainings or hypnotherapy courses.

The classic NLP fast phobias technique (continued from an earlier NLP blog) gets the person to totally scratch the record in their mind that holds the phobic response until it won’t play any more. If we think about the response as being the recording in the mind held by the neurological pathways that always get activated in the specific situation, we get the person to totally scramble the pathways until they won’t play any more. We do this by getting the person to play the first event where they learn the phobic response backwards lots of times until the original response will not run any more. Some people add some silly music in the background also to make it even more ridiculous and scrambled.

On an NLP training I have seem the most dramatic phobias disappear in a matter of minutes – things that have been causing the person a problem for year.

NLP techniques were developed by modeling what ‘works’ from all different areas. Phobias are just one area that NLP is exceedingly effective for.

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More on phobias…

Monday, March 1st, 2010

In the last NLP blog we talked about the classic psychological technique of flooding. In this NLP blog we will continue talking about dealing with phobias – this time with the classic technique of progressive desensitization – not an NLP technique, but a well practiced psychotherapeutic technique for working with phobias. I first learned this back in about 1990 when I was first training as a hypnotherapist and psychotherapist, where this was one of the main techniques we were taught for dealing with phobias. Together with the NLP fast phobia technique, it is a valuable tool for any therapist, and much more pleasant than flooding!

Basically it involves exposing the client to things that they are progressively more frightened about. So if it was a fear of heights, you would find the thing that the client was most frightened of, and then the thing that they are least frightened of and then make a hierarchy of things that are progressively more and more frightening.

So for heights, say the thing they were most afraid of is being on the top floor of a high building, you would then find out what they are least afraid of, for example standing on a stool. You then would make a list of things they are progressively more afraid of, for example standing on a table, standing on a small ladder, then a bigger ladder etc.

You would then get the person to start with the thing they are least afraid of and stay there as you talk with them and help them relax. After a little while they would feel fine doing that and you would progress to the next thing on the list, which you would get them to continue until they felt comfortable. You then continue with each step on the list until they could work up to the thing they are most afraid of, which is often a surprisingly short time.

In the nest NLP blog we will explore some more details about the NLP fast phobia technique.

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More NLP Blogging on Phobias…

Thursday, February 25th, 2010

In the NLP Blog last week, I was talking about phobias. On any NLP Practitioner training students will learn the NLP technique for working with phobias. I outlined how important it is to do double dissociation in the last personal development blog – another part of the phobia technique is to break the pattern that leads to the phobia. A phobia is an example of a pattern. In neurological terms, we could see this as neurological pathways that have become strengthened over time. In fact every time someone avoids the stimulus that causes the reaction, they action reinforce the pattern and strengthen the neurological pathways for the reaction. Every time something is repeated it will strengthen the neurological pathways.

In fact there is a classic ‘old’ psychological technique for dealing with phobias (just to stress, this is not NLP) – it is called flooding, where you expose the person to the stimulus until they stop having the response. This is a really harsh technique and can be very unpleasant, however it is effective.

People will only maintain the strong emotional response for a certain time and at some point it disappears. A psychotherapist who was a tutor on a course I attended when I first learned hypnotherapy would sometimes assign someone with a fear of driving the task of getting into a car and driving until the response disappeared – not an easy thing for the client (and perhaps for other people on the road!), however he had good success.

Flooding is not a technique we would use in NLP. The fast phobia process that students learn on the NLP Practitioner course is far quicker and not stressful for the client.

In the next NLP blog, we will continue with exploring phobias.

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